Thursday, March 18, 2010

Catching Up: Part 3

The last thing Andrew and I have been able to do in the past few weeks is go on a real and true vacation. And irony of ironies, we decided to journey back to my home, the Land of Enchantment.

Andrew loves to snowboard. Also ironic because he grew up in Arizona. However, this did place him in proximity to some awesome mountains accessible on various youth retreats through church. Said youth trips also afforded him the opportunity to teach other people how to partake in the sport. I on the other hand, had tried snowboarding once in a half-day lesson where I got off the lift successfully and down the bunny slope facing forward a few times. So, I wanted to re-try and see if Andrew and I could form a dream team of snowboarding excellence. Or just enjoy it together.

So, we decided to venture to Taos New Mexico for the trip. This enabled us to spend a little time with my parents as well.

We stayed at a Bed and Breakfast in Taos. This was a first for the both of us, and was a winner. You should read the breakfast page for the Cottonwood Inn in order to understand how great the food was. We had home-made plumb and raspberry syrups on french toast, eggs with green chile, fresh fruit, coffee, bacon, sausage, and biscuits to name a few of the dishes. Normally, the leftover food goes to the chickens that the Innkeepers have. Andrew managed to diminish their rations significantly, to the point that the rooster was following him each time we walked by the chicken coop. There were cookies waiting for us each day when we got back, a movie and book library to borrow from, a hot tub, and did I mention great breakfasts?

So, as to the snowboarding. I was able to borrow a board from one of Wes' friends in town. Before going on the trip Andrew warned me that my calves were going to be on fire the first few days, that I was going to fall often and have to get back up, so I was ready for some pain. And the first day there was lots of pain as I "leafed" down runs, and had to stay on either toe side or heel side for long periods not knowing how to carve. Taos has some awesome blues and blacks, but the greens are often narrow and kind of flat. Two things that I had a hard time with as I was just starting out.

The second day I was bound and determined to learn how to carve. Time to get serious. Problem is, to carve to have to start pointing the board down hill. And down a pretty steep hill. Turns out, this terrified me. Really. I had this image in my head of me shooting off the side of the run into trees, or just careening down the hill unable to stop myself. And so, even though my head was trying to tell my feet to let the board point down that hill, my feet refused. (And by that I mean I was plain chicken) This made it a bit more difficult to learn how to carve. Andrew, by grace, was really patient with me the whole day. Slowly, I started to figure out that I WASN'T going to fly off the mountain if I worked up the courage to point down that hill. And by the end of the day, there was a little, weak carving going on.

We took the next day off, which made me realize how amazingly sore my entire body was. But the rest was great. It also started snowing on the mountain that day.

When we got to the mountain the next day, it was still snowing, and there had been 8 inches over night. The powder made carving more interesting, and falling a lot softer. I ended up feeling sick half way through the day, and we took the rest of the day off.

The last day was the best. 10 more inches of powder had fallen, and the sun was out. We decided to rent me a board that was more my size. The one I rented ended up being a good 3 inches shorter that the borrowed board which helped my confidence more than anything. As the day went on I was actually carving back and forth down runs and not having to stop at all. We snowboarded the whole day without stopping and finished with some steins of great beer.

Snowboarding ended up being hard for me to learn not from the physical aspect, but the mental one. I was such a frady cat of pointing down hill, going fast, and actually taking some risks. There came a point where I thought to myself, "What's the worst that can happen if you go a bit faster than you want? You fall, maybe hard, in some snow. And then you get up. Take the risk already!" And when I was able to be ok with a little speed, a little uncertainty, a little risk, that's when I actually got better, and enjoyed snowboarding! I really like the feeling of being in control, of know the outcome of my actions. And being in new situations does not afford me that feeling. So I can either get anxious about them, and be somewhat paralyzed, or I can move forward and see what happens. And it was great when I did. The sensation of smoothly sliding over the side of a mountain covered in snow felt like a mixture of calm and freedom, if that makes any sense.

I also must say that New Mexico is one of my favorite places. I love the food. I love the culture. I love the vast landscapes and the variety of outdoor adventure stuff you can do there. I love seeing streets names in Spanish, adobe, green chile, sun, and little pretension. It's a pretty great place.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Catching Up: Part 2

As to the second major event Andrew and I attended in the last few weeks: The Adopting for Life Conference.

As to the questions that are raised by our attendance at this conference:
- Yes, we do hope to adopt in the future
- We do not currently know if we are infertile, and frankly this has little to no bearing on a decision to adopt. (You were wondering though, weren't you?)
- We are undecided as to whether we would do domestic or foreign adoption

Ok, so now that we have that all straight:

The main drive that was only furthered at this conference is this: Adoption is the orphan care of America today. That's what our society has done with orphans. And historically, the church has done that job (orphan care). So, adoption is the ministry that a church can have to the orphan today. Not only that, but it is a living picture of our adoption into the family of God. Taking a child that is not your own, making him or her your own, and giving him or her the inheritance of being a part of your family.

So, as Christians, why isn't adoption something we talk about more often? How come most people only think of adoption when they find out that they can't have kids of their own? As the church, we should be all about this!

Andrew and I learned a lot of things ranging from the practical aspects of how to start the adoption process, the financial side, the organizations that can help with finances, and how to start church adoption funds. It was really sweet to see such a broad range of topics covered. And it was great to meet people who were excited about adoption. We really enjoyed the conference!

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Catching Up: Part 1

Andrew and I have had a busy past few weeks. I'll start with my birthday.




I ended up working until the morning of my birthday, which was fine. Allie, one of my friends at work made me brownies, and my manager Heather brought a cookie cake. All delicious. After going home and sleeping, Andrew and I watched a little Lonesome Dove, and then headed to a surprise dinner. I didn't know where we were going, and we ended up at an Irsih pub called Birdie McKenna's. As we walk in the door, the lady who was going to seat us asked if we were there to eat or to go to the wiskey tasting. I immediatley knew Andrew was thinking, "Um, yes." Unbenownst to him, this pub was having a tasting of various kinds of Jameson wiskey that very night. No charge, no reservation needed. Who am I to say no to that? So, for my 24th birthday, I sampled a smattering of Jameson whiskey, concluding with a kind called Rarest which runs about $200 (or more) a bottle. And I can say that by the end, I could appreciate the differences in the types. Am I now a wiskey drinker? Hardly. We concluded the night with some friends from Trinity and some yummy curry fries (my new favorite pub food). Does my husband know how to treat a girl or what?
 
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