Andrew and I celebrated one year of marriage on October 3rd!
Andrew plans great surprises. Quite often, I inadvertently ruin them. However, he successfully managed to make 70% of his plans for the day a surprise.
The day before, Andrew had checked out a book for me from the library. We got home from school, and he decided to take a nap. Innocently, I opened his backpack to try and locate the book, and found 2 journaling Bibles inside. Andrew, foiled again! I still didn't know where we were going or what we were doing on Saturday, that is until Andrew plainly told the lady at Pay-Less Shoes, "Tomorrow is our first anniversary, and we're doing what all couples do one their first anniversary. We're going to Wisconsin." Right in front of me. By Accident. Priceless.
Knowing we were going to Wisconsin didn't help me much, because I don't know much about Wisconsin. On Saturday, we drove to Milwaukee, and our first stop was
Lakefront Brewery. They have an "Infamous Brewery Tour" we had heard about. Sweet! We walked in, only to see a "TOUR SOLD OUT" sign. Bad news. Andrew goes up to talk to the lady, plays the first anniversary card and everything. No dice. We decide to stay and have a beer anyway, and the lady at the front has some pity on us and gives us free tickets to the tour another day with specific instructions to get there early. Sweet!
Our next stop was the
Third Ward District in Milwaukee. We strolled around, and conveniently (and by that I mean Andrew planned it) ended up at a bakery with some great desserts. Sweet! (Literally). We bought some for later, and then continued on to the dinner stop. We ate dinner at
Fratellos, a restaurant right on the river. The food was great. We got some yummy soup, Ahi Tuna Lollipops, Andrew had curry crusted tuna for dinner, and I had gnocchi, which I love. And, our server brought is a chocolate cupcake with a flame-shooting sparkler on top! Sweet!
The first anniversary is supposed to be the paper one. I had already gotten Andrew a new Greek New Testament as a gift when school started. I also made a scrapbook of our first year. (Did anyone else know that scrabooking requires a decent amount of time to do well?) The journaling Bibles were gifted, and then explained. Andrew's idea is for us to read through the Bible together, and journal in them for each other for a year. We are going to pick a "lens" or theme of scripture to be looking for in particular, and journal about it, and then give each other the Bibles next year. Really sweet.
We also had some great conversation about what we would like to see happen in our next year of marriage. Ways the we want to see God work in us and grow us that we can point to next year and praise Him for. I think we were most excited about this idea.
After we got home, there were roses waiting, and a movie. I praise God for a sweet year of marriage. One that hasn't been easy or comfortable, but one that was pretty great too. I praise God for my husband, who I enjoy SO much, who surprises me, and who loves me well. And I praise God for holding our marriage together, for working in both of our lives, and for authoring the sanctifying institution of marriage.